I am Don and Carol Byrnes’s son. Don’s, Karen’s, and David’s brother. Erwin Byrnes’s nephew.
Long live the memory of Erwin Byrnes, 1928-2014. Read his obituary here. And an article about how he planned his death here.
“It took a lot of nerve on his part,” Tom Byrnes said. “He was like, it’s 10 o’clock, let’s go.” “We just know this is the way we want to get treated,” Erwin said a few days before. “People may not agree with us, but that’s our choice, not anyone else’s choice. We have to be kind of the driver of our own bus.”
And on writing women’s obituaries.
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How admirable. Thanks for sharing this Ron.
Thanks for sharing this Ron. A wonderful story, beginning to end.
Kris
Your father is still being an educator by modeling how we should all leave this earth, surrounded by friends and family when the time has come. Celebrating our life before we die sounds like a much better idea than when we are gone. Thanks for sharing this Ron.
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