Maybe We’re All Sign-Holders

What do you think when you pass under political, sign-holding people on freeway overpasses? Of either variety, bright red or dark blue?

My internal dialogue. “Apart from posting on Facebook, I don’t think anyone could choose a less effective form of political persuasion. Has anyone ever, in world history, said, ‘You know, I was driving south on the I-5 when I looked up and saw an outstretched sign that said ‘X’. Until that moment, I really believed ‘Y’. But now, I realize how misguided I have been and I’ve completely come around to ‘X’.”

At 65 mph, the outstretched sign advert might last 1-2 seconds. That’s not even subliminal.

The sign holders are careful to keep a safe distance from their opponents they’re hoping to somehow convert. Their method is a metaphor for our modern age. We’re all steadily improving at keeping a safe distance from one another. Getting better and better at reducing the inconvenience and unpredictability of direct, interpersonal contact.

Abrupt shift. You may be wondering how I’m doing. Lots of people appreciated the “rawness” with which I described Lynn’s final chapter. Now though, I feel like the humble blog is completely inadequate for telling my story. Of how I’m doing.

I suppose, like the sign holders, I’m afraid too. Afraid to “keep it real” in way too impersonal a format.

So what to do? I don’t know.

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  1. You wrote

    keeping a safe distance from one another. Getting better and better at reducing the inconvenience and unpredictability of direct, interpersonal contact

    This struck a chord with me. It’s happening in Japan as well. Well, it’s always been so in Japan, but more so in the past 2 years with one traditional form of greetings. New Year’s cards, in Japan, called nengajo .

    My wife and I sent out maybe 80 or so cards to our friends and family, but have received maybe 20-30% in return. It seems the trend of not exchanging New Year’s cards (here in Japan, it’s called “graduation”) began last year. Precisely the year when we did not send out cards which are allowed to those who have experienced bereavement (my wife’s mother). Now we’re left wondering if we missed out on the train/trend.

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